Perspective

Warning: If you are sensitive to the topic or can not handle reading about someone else's experience without feeling personally attacked, this is not for you. I repeat, this is my experience, not an attack on any person. I've been trying for a good little while now, not to go into this. Partly because I … Continue reading Perspective

They can’t all be winners

So far, I'd like to think I've painted a pretty sweet picture of being married for you. I've talked a little about the in's and out of our relationship and I've even given you some reasons why I love my wife to pieces. However. We ain't exempt from the fuckery that is marriage. (Yeah, I … Continue reading They can’t all be winners

5 reasons why I love being black, lesbian, and married.

Who doesn't wanna be black (unless you don't)? What, with our gorgeously unique hair, popping skin, cultural contributions, and natural affinity for improving everything we touch, I wouldn't want to be any other race. The look on traditionalists faces when I reach for my wife's hand in public or plant a juicy kiss on her … Continue reading 5 reasons why I love being black, lesbian, and married.

Popular

I decided to go on this writing journey primarily out of necessity. I was word vomiting everywhere on everyone who would listen. I was making my problems everyone else's because I wasn't feeling validated and I honestly didn't recognize that I was doing it. Once I cleaned the lenses of my glasses and give myself … Continue reading Popular

Who told you that?

There are so many stereotype's about lesbians that I almost didn't know where to begin. I did a couple of web searches while trying to do research for this post and it seems that everyone is addressing the exact same stereotypes as if there aren't a plethora untruths to unfurl. I'm not claiming to be … Continue reading Who told you that?