7 Things I’ve learned in my 10 year relationship.

Tre and I have spent a decade together. We met when we were in our early twenties, at the time where neither of us really knew who we were yet. We definitely didn't know that this is where we would wind up all these years later. In addition to her being my very best friend … Continue reading 7 Things I’ve learned in my 10 year relationship.

The Lion and the twins

I'm a Gemini. As Gemini as any Gemini could ever be. I am communicative, outgoing, high spirited, sociable and restless. It takes me longer than most people to come to a decision about anything because I have this uncontrollable need to fully vet all possible outcomes before I move forward. This sometimes results in my … Continue reading The Lion and the twins

Why did I get married?

'Cause, I ain't have shit better to do, that's why! Let me stop playing. I could sit here and say I got married for some hetero- normative reason. I could say I got married because of some hallmark card bullshit, but the truth of the matter is... We had already been in a committed relationship … Continue reading Why did I get married?

They can’t all be winners

So far, I'd like to think I've painted a pretty sweet picture of being married for you. I've talked a little about the in's and out of our relationship and I've even given you some reasons why I love my wife to pieces. However. We ain't exempt from the fuckery that is marriage. (Yeah, I … Continue reading They can’t all be winners

5 reasons why I love being black, lesbian, and married.

Who doesn't wanna be black (unless you don't)? What, with our gorgeously unique hair, popping skin, cultural contributions, and natural affinity for improving everything we touch, I wouldn't want to be any other race. The look on traditionalists faces when I reach for my wife's hand in public or plant a juicy kiss on her … Continue reading 5 reasons why I love being black, lesbian, and married.